Nowadays, most people are trying to be submission because they are too lazy to cater for themselves so they have to be nice so that someone can take care of them...that is why some men feel castrated when their women bring in significant money, they want to control her, her money or even make her loose the job cos they know how to play the master-slave role and they're scared it would come back to them...
Some of us women truly sit and wait for men to get jobs and money so that they can "marry us" even though they may have the same degree certificate with the man. Look. The economy worldwide is getting tougher and we are all in the same market, men and women alike so stop waiting for that professional to come and save you, be the professional yourself...
Let me break it down for you; so you are a chic and you feel that marrying a doctor or an IT specialist is economically reasonable, why don't you be the doctor or an IT specialist yourself?... You are a man and you think that marrying a nurse who you could bring abroad to kill/overwork is profitable, why don't you study nursing yourself?
I won't really blame us women for relaxing with our degrees and "waiting" for the guy, yes, that's what we were taught worldwide, remember those stories, "#sleeping beauty", "#snow white" and "Rapunzel"?, yeah, they were all rescued by princes/knights in shining armours even when they were sleeping...
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Well, we ain't sleeping today, cos them storytellers didn't factor in the future economy that would make even the men seek for rescue. So for those about to write jamb, go and read that money-spinning course and stop making plans to marry "it"...
Even if we were taught to just sit and be beautiful, we can unteach ourselves. anyways, the way the world is present, some of us are fast learning without teachers.
But people who only remember what's written in the bible when they want to put it to others, do you lead the prayers in your house? Yes, if you want or claim to be the head, you should start from the spiritual because it births the physical. You can't be running about claiming the physical head while thou art, not the spiritual head.
I cover myself with the blood of Jesus and return every arsenal, seen and unseen, back to the sender, fortified by a hundred. Amen. #NB. Being a housewife is a full-time job!

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